The delight of Life is surprise, what would life be if one revealed the future all the time before it took place? Would it be worth living?
Everything that happens to us happens, just happens, it cannot be made to happen and it cannot be made to not happen, it is in the pipeline.
There is the illusion that someone is in charge of life and that this imagined someone has control over what takes place and what does not. If this were true there would be no suffering, but there is.
As long as this idea that there is someone that can change what arises is present there is suffering.
When this concept falls away so does the suffering as the resister is no longer present.
When letting go happens the imagined separate one’s will surrenders to the will of the Divine as the separate one is seen to be non existent.
In every detail of all the circumstances that arises as what appears to be ones personal life there is nothing personal. Life happens without the consent of what is imagined to be a person.
Life simply happens.